If I treated others the way they great me would they be as understanding?

I was always under the assumption that love was like breathing. Easy,natural, and always peaceful. I was wrong. I didn’t take into the account the differences in the breath we take. The difficulties some have to even breath. I learned today real love takes real hard work. It’s not easy at all. It’s not for the faint of heart. It’s for the strong not the weak. You don’t have to have experience but you have to be willing to learn. Grow and accept your flaws and the flaws of the one you love. Or what would love be? I thought for sure I’d loved before today now I know I had no clue. But I’m certain I’m in love now. I’m willing to work for it I’m not leaving it all to fate.destiny.or hope. I’m leaving it toy works and praying to God those three things help. When the one comes it won’t always be perfect in its imperfections. That’s what I thought people meant when they said its not going to be perfect. I assumed it would always feel perfect even when it wasn’t. An of it didn’t that it wasn’t real. My love was tested today. And I fought for it. And I’m proud to say I’m a warrior of real love. No ego, pride, or anger. I almost made the biggest mistake of my life. And that’s letting go when I know I should hold on. I’ll work and put in overtime fort love. Not because desperate, or feel unworthy. But because he’s worth it. He’s completely worth what NO MAN HAS EVER BEEN WORTH. My fight.

Love hard,
Cause if you ain’t loving hard you ain’t loving at all
-Olubowale Victor Akintimehin